In the blame game, nobody’s a winner. There will be a victim and villain in a scenario with little chance of positive resolution. Many of us, including some of my psychic medium clients, have engaged in this routine. But, why?
Initially, some believe it’s easier to point fingers at a person or an event than to take ownership of their journeys. Eventually, most realize, easier doesn’t mean progressive. To illustrate, I offer one of my own, “Because of…,” episodes:
In my corporate past, I carried around a Texas-sized grudge for a fellow employee, by whom I’d felt betrayed. I did more than just acknowledge the hurt; I used it as an excuse to blame the individual for my bleak office days. After months of being in a rut, I finally saw the light. Why would I give someone credit for my misery? Essentially, it’s the same as giving them power over my happiness. When I approached the situation from that angle, everything changed for the better. I focused on me and for what I was responsible. And, it didn’t involve the co-worker and his choices. Within days, I replaced a burning hole in my chest with a more glowing outlook on life.
So, if you ever find yourself being a participant in a blame game, skip your turn.
Love and light,